Learning Lessons Abroad

Dear Coach,

I’m about to start my junior year at an American university and I’ve been selected to spend my second semester at Stockholm University in Sweden. Although I’m honored to have been chosen and I know it’s a good opportunity, I’m hesitant to commit.

Here are some things I’m considering: I’m a biotechnology major and I need to spend my junior year doing research for my senior paper, I have a serious girlfriend (I’m trying hard to not let this relationship influence me), and I’ve never traveled outside of the country (except with my family to an all-inclusive resort). The whole idea of living and studying abroad feels overwhelming.

Do you have any thoughts on my situation?

Signed,

Struggling

P.S. I’m an honor student with an A-plus average.

Dear Struggling,

The definition of adventure is, “An unusual and exciting, typically hazardous, experience or activity.” I agree with you, change is hard, even when it’s positive and full of adventure.

However, a typical university semester is fifteen to sixteen weeks, a virtual drop in the ocean of your life. Consider the pros and cons by asking yourself, “What do I have to lose by going?” Then, “What do I have to lose by not going?”

You’re an excellent student. Will one semester abroad (still studying in your field) really set you back, or is this an excuse? Do you doubt that your relationship can withstand a sixteen-week separation?

Those who promote studying abroad say that it significantly contributes to personal growth by fostering independence, adaptability, and a broader perspective. Immersing oneself in a new culture enhances self-confidence, problem-solving skills, and cross-cultural communication, all of which are valuable in both your personal and professional life.

And here’s one more: university studies show that studying abroad also promotes self-awareness and empathy, leading to a more well-rounded and globally minded individual.

I looked up what a few students had to say about their experience. Irock06 wrote, “I spent a semester abroad, and I think the most significant impact it had on me was learning how to adapt. You become more resourceful and less likely to rely on others for every little thing. It’s definitely one of those experiences that teaches you how to be independent in a new way.”

Since you’re an achiever, you also might want to consider the future. According to experts, 41% of employers cite international experience as an incentive to offer job candidates higher starting salaries.

Besides the downsides you mention in your email, others might include homesickness, frustration in not knowing the language, and feeling like a fish out of water.

But, as you can probably tell, I’m a big proponent of travel in general and grabbing an opportunity like this by the horns. I doubt if you’ll regret it!

Good luck to you, no matter what you decide!