Couple Finds Community, Purpose and Peace of Mind at The Arlington

When Bill and Gail Berghoff reserved an estate home at The Arlington of Naples in their early 70s, some friends thought they were moving too soon. 

They were healthy, active and independent. The Life Plan Community had not yet opened, and construction had not even begun. 

More than a decade later, the Berghoffs say they made exactly the right decision. 

“The Arlington appealed to us because they had individual homes and we were not ready to go into apartment life,” Gail says. “We’ve been in our home now for 10 years.” 

For Bill and Gail, the decision was never simply about healthcare. It was about choosing their future while they were still healthy enough to enjoy it. 

One of the biggest benefits, they say, was the opportunity to build friendships before they even moved in. Future residents gathered for dinners and social events, creating connections that continued after The Arlington opened. 

“It’s a very warm, very inviting culture,” Gail says. “It’s easy for new people to move into this culture because there is that framework.” 

Bill says the welcoming spirit is evident throughout the community. 

“A new couple walks in, they’re immediately welcome,” Gail adds. “People move chairs and pull them up to the tables. I don’t think anyone ever doesn’t feel welcome.” 

The Berghoffs have also found opportunities for purpose and service. Bill helped establish The Arlington’s Resident Council and continues to serve on community committees, including the Financial Advisory Group and Marketing Committee. 

Before retirement, Bill volunteered with organizations including Habitat for Humanity and Centers for Learning. Today, he believes retirement has simply provided a new place to make a difference. 

“Purpose doesn’t retire. It evolves.” 

After more than 10 years at The Arlington, Bill's advice to people considering a Life Plan Community is straightforward: don't wait too long. 

“Whether you like it or not, you’re going to age and if you wait too long, your choices diminish,” he says. 

For the Berghoffs, moving early meant making the decision on their own terms, enjoying an active lifestyle and becoming part of a community where neighbors became friends—and friends became family. 

“Gail and I both view it very much as a blessing at this stage in our life,” Bill says. “It just has worked out very well for us.” 

If you’re considering independent living in Naples or wondering whether a Life Plan Community is right for your future, Bill and Gail encourage you to visit The Arlington, meet the residents and experience the community for yourself. 

Smart Move Series Lunch and Learn 

Elevate Your Next Move: Preparing Your Home 
Tuesday, August 25, 2026 | 11:00 AM 

The Arlington of Naples invites the community to its Smart Move Series Lunch and Learn, featuring Mike O’Rourke, a top-producing, multiple award-winning Realtor. 

Mike will share practical advice on preparing your home for your next move, whether you're considering downsizing, relocating or simply planning ahead. 

Reserve your seat at TheArlingtonofNaples.com. 

For questions, contact Barbara Ann Heegan, Director of Business Development, at heeganbarbaraann@thearlingtonofnaples.com or 239-307-3183.