An attitude of gratitude must be taught. It sounds like your children may have dropped the ball. I imagine you’re feeling a combination of sadness, anger, and disappointment. I don’t blame you.
I’m wondering how old your grandchildren are? If they’re older, I would address them directly. “Did you receive my check? What did you spend the money on? I hope you had a good Christmas.” Text them if they’re tweens or older.
If they’re young, talk to your child, or their parent, and ask them similar questions. Don’t sweep this under the rug if it’s bothering you. Even if the parents aren’t taking responsibility for teaching gratitude doesn’t mean you can’t have some influence.
As yourself, “What might happen if I speak out?” If it sounds scary to confront the issue, consider whether or not it’s worth it.
There’s one caveat. Be aware that sometimes our efforts in this department are to no avail. If that’s the case, how will you adjust?
Thanks for asking such a good question—again!
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